Here are a few new things going on with my dreadies.
1) I stopped using DreadHeadHQ's Dread locking spray for a bit to get rid of itchy scalp and dandruff. I used to sprinkle the sea-salt solution on my dreads every time after I washed them. But my scalp would start itching like crazy the very same day despite the fact that I took care not to spray it on my roots. I now only wash my hair once a week, down from 2-3 times previously. I also have almost no dandruff anymore.
2) The DIY dreadlock wash (baking soda, lemon juice, apple-cider-vinegar, essential oils) worked to knock out most of the wax stuck in the core of my roots. However, after reading a few articles on the disastrous effects of baking soda on the hair structure (e.g.
this one), I decided to use this washing method only very seldomly. Apple-cider-vinegar seems to be hair-friendly and a great conditioner, but it's not the best for baby dreads that need tightening, not conditioning and hence unraveling. My dreads looked shiny, felt super soft to touch, and they smelled after tea tree oil for the next 2-3 days. The only downside was that some of them came loose in the middle and I had to crochet them back together.
3) I started using Knotty Boy's Locksteady Tightening Gel which smells and works wonderfully. I found it is a great alternative for wax- it kicks out loose hair without greasing it up and infuses it with vitamins and other good natural ingredients. The dreads are sensibly coarser, which speeds up the locking process. It's not a very pleasant feeling, especially before going to bed- it kind of feels like lying on a coarse blanket. In that case I either put my dreads into a bun to sleep, or I quickly rub in them some Dread Butter from DreadHeadHQ to smoothen up the surface.
4) My dreads are not "filled out" just yet, meaning they are not puffy so you can still see my scalp quite a lot, whether I let them down or put them up. This happens primarily on the top/back of my head where my hair naturally divides into two sides. It's a bit frustrating especially when my hair is down because the patches look like balding spots. I solve it by putting my hair up or braiding it so you can't see the back patches, or putting a hairband to cover the side scalpy-ness. Other times I don't care and just rock the scalp!
So far it's been a pretty smooth ride. There are good hair days and bad hair days, just like on any head with hair. Dreads are no exception! You just have to keep loving them and push forward :)